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Anna= "Just Pinky"

Who we love does not determine who we are.....

Something well said....

".....What you do with what I share with you is up to you, but I wanted to share my thoughts. You can not allow your choices to result in what takes all of your thought, energy and emotion and to allow it to consume who you are and how you feel about yourself. Right now you are with someone or without, for better or worse, who either was or is someone who's choices will hurt you not because of you but who THEY are. You are faced with the inevitable choice of acceptance or surrender or both. Either way it is up to you how you feel everyday, and what energy is taken from you. It took years of draining me and destructing me to realize I have a choice......"

"..... at the end of the day the choices I make are up to me, and my fault alone if I go back and suffer with thoughts of what he may or may not be capable of."

"...be strong, and always remember that who we love does not determine who we are, but what we will and will not accept defines our character!!"


With that being said.....

I know more things than what most people give me credit for. It is not a matter of assumption that I know this, because it is nothing but the clear and simple truth in what they do or not do, that makes me realize this.


1. We're way more vulgar than you. We just aren't as loud.

2. We don't really mind when you leave the toilet seat up. It's evidence that you didn't piss all over it.

3. We drink till you're cute, too.

4. Whoever told you that we love spooning is wrong. You fall asleep immediately, and we're pinned under your heavy, sweaty limbs, trying desperately to break free before you start snoring. And yes, you will start snoring.

5. No, we don't want to listen to you play the Guns N' Roses song you just learned on your guitar (or bass or drums). We're not in college anymore. Sitting on your couch while you struggle through "November Rain" is painful. Have mercy.

6. "You're so smart" actually means, "You're so adorable when you try to act smart."

7. Sexy beats cute. Smart trumps sexy. Funny takes the pot.

8. When we say cool, really, wow, and huh, we're not listening, either.

9. We don't really expect you to like romantic comedies. We just make you watch them as payback for all the baseball games, Metallica concerts, and Super Bowl parties we sit through with you. And for the record, we, unlike you, have yet to fall asleep in the middle of any of them.

10. We never fake orgasms. Okay, once in a while we do. But only for the sake of expediency.